Card of the Day today is Brothers and Sisters
Today’s crystals are White Howlite and Blue Goldstone helping us to make our peace with our past and move towards a brighter future.
Have you noticed how your siblings can make you feel like a child no matter how old you are?
Brothers and sisters share our early lives with us, and can really get under our skin.
For this reason, we may feel a strong bond with them and continue to have deep and powerful relationships with them as we grow older. These relationships may not be very positive ones, but we may feel duty bound to stay close to them nonetheless.
These family relationships may in fact be incredibly negative ones, but society tells us that we should love and honour our family so we stay in contact, help as much as we can and sometimes allow them to hurt us again and again when we would have walked away from anybody else long ago.
There are many stressful and unhealthy sibling relationships, and today the angels remind you to love yourself enough to say no to family when they are being unreasonable.
You don’t owe them anything, no matter what you think or what they say. You don’t owe anyone anything.
Siblings are not your children and you are not responsible for them.
Some people find friends as their life progresses who feel closer to them than their own family. People who make them feel loved an understood, accepted and at home.
These people are soul brothers and sisters and you are truly blessed indeed when you encounter these beloved souls.
Your soul will recognise your soul family when you meet them, and these people will be the ones who will take the place of any negative family members.
I really love the saying that friends are the family we choose for ourselves.
Be strong enough to say no to any negative or harmful family relationships today. Set strong boundaries and defend your rights to be treated like a human being not abused by an overgrown child.
You deserve respect, dignity and freedom, and if your brothers and sisters cannot give you that, they are not really your family at all.